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STABENOW o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2006-05-25 published
BOULTER,
Audrey (née
MORRIS)
Of Hanover and formerly of Wiarton passed away peacefully on
Wednesday, May 24th, 2006 at Hanover Care Centre in her 92nd
year. Beloved mother of Moe (June)
BOULTER of Wiarton, Janice
(Laverne) BECKER of Ayton and Gaylanne
BOULTER of Niagara Falls.
Cherished grandmother of 6 and great-grandmother of 8. She will
be sadly missed by her daughter-in-law Julia
BOULTER of Wiarton,
son-in-law Charles
KOEBEL (and his wife
Bonnie) of Hanover, and
her niece Marlene
BAERNS of Tennessee. Audrey was predeceased
by her husband Harold
BOULTER, her parents Amelia
(STABENOW)
and Gilbert
MORRIS, her son Raymond, daughter Arlene and one
brother Gilbert. Friends may call at the George Funeral Home,
Wiarton on Friday, May 26th, 2006 from 1: 00 p.m. until time of
service to celebrate Audrey's life at 2: 00 p.m. with Rev. Peter
GIBBINS officiating. Interment Bayview Cemetery, Wiarton. Donations
to the Canadian Diabetes Association or the Resident Council
of Hanover Care Centre would be appreciated by the family as
expressions of sympathy. Condolences for the family may be left
at www.georgefuneralhome.com
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STABILE o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2006-01-27 published
PAGNIELLO,
Rocco
Passed away, at Scarborough General Hospital, on Thursday, January
26, 2006. Rocco, beloved husband of Pasqualina. Loving father
of Pasqualino and his wife Michelle, and Nonno of Roberta, Alexandra,
and Rocco. Dear brother of Michelina (Carmelo)
PALANDRA,
Antoineta
SELANO, Rochina (Saverio)
DIGREGORIO, Fedelina (Rocco)
LAMANA,
and brother-in-law of Joe
FROSOLONE and Leonardo (Vita)
STABILE.
Lovingly remembered by his nieces and nephews. Family and Friends
will be received at the Highland Funeral Home, 3280 Sheppard
Ave. East (just west of Warden), 416-773-0933, on Saturday from
5-9 p.m. and Sunday from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. A Funeral Mass will
be held on Monday, January 30th at 11 a.m. in St. Aiden's Roman
Catholic Church (Finch, east of Warden, south side). Entombment
at Highland Memory Gardens. In lieu of flowers, donations to
the Canadian Diabetes Association would be appreciated.
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STABLES o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2006-04-11 published
STABLES,
George▼
Harry▼
It is with extreme grief and sadness that Rosemarie announces
the passing of her very cherished husband and best friend George
on Sunday, April 9, 2006. Beloved
son of the late George Alexander
STABLES and Ethel
(PATCHETT)
SMITH. Chosen brother of David
JARVIE,
Norman JARVIE,
Brian
JARVIE (Dianne,) half-brother to Karen
KRATOCHVIL
(Len). Loved brother-in-law of Tino and Jackie
DEL
GRANDE, Colette
and Brian McINTOSH.
Proud uncle of many nieces and nephews. Cremation
has taken place. A Celebration of George's Life will be held
at W. John Thomas Funeral Home, 244 Victoria St. E., Alliston
on Thursday, April 13, 2006 at 10: 30 a.m. If so desired, memorial
donations to the chartiy of your choice would be appreciated.
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STABLES o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2006-04-12 published
STABLES,
George▲
Harry▲
It is with extreme grief and sadness that Rosemarie announces
the passing of her very cherished husband and best friend George
on Sunday, April 9, 2006, at Stevenson Memorial Hospital, Alliston,
Ontario. Beloved
son of the late George Alexander
STABLES and
Ethel (PATCHETT)
SMITH.
Loved son-in-law of George (Gaetano)
DEL
GRANDE and the late Dolly Margaret (Julia)
DEL
GRANDE.
Chosen
brother of David
JARVIE,
Norman
JARVIE, Brian
JARVIE (Dianne.)
Half brother to Karen
KRATOCHVIL
(Len.)
Loved brother-in-law
of Tino and Jackie
DEL
GRANDE,
Collette and Brian
McINTOSH. Proud
uncle of many nieces and nephews. Cremation has taken place.
A Celebration of George's Life will be held at W. John Thomas
Funeral Home, 244 Victoria Street E., Alliston on Thursday, April 13,
2006 at 10: 30 a.m. If so desired, memorial donations to the charity
of your choice would be appreciated.
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STACEY o@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2006-07-12 published
HAMILTON,
Mary
(SINKIEWICZ)
In Dufferin Oaks, Shelburne on Tuesday July 4, 2006. Mary Hamilton
in her 88th year. Mary
(SINKIEWICZ)
HAMILTON, beloved wife of
the late Clarence
HAMILTON, dear sister of Eva
KRULL and Julia
ANWEILER both of Toronto. Will be sadly missed by many nieces,
nephews and Friends. Predeceased by a brother Joe
SINKIEWICZ,
four sisters Caroline
CHARUK,
Annie
KONDEL, Helen
RAMENDA and
Frances STACEY.
Rested▼ at the McMillan and Jack Funeral Home,
Dundalk. Funeral Mass was held in Saint_John's Roman Catholic Church
on Thursday July 6 at 1: 30 p.m. Interment in Shelburne Cemetery.
Donations to the charity of your choice would be appreciated.
Visitation was held on Wednesday July 5 from 7-9 p.m.
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STACEY o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2006-10-23 published
STACEY,
Nelson “Nick&rdquo
At the Grey Bruce Health Services, Owen Sound, on Saturday, October 21st,
2006, in his 59th year, Nick
STACEY of Owen Sound and formerly
of Port Elgin. Husband of Barbara
STACEY.
Father of Rob and his
fiancée Jennifer of Uxbridge, and Nicole and her husband Tim
LIENHART of Owen Sound. Papa to Deklen, Brock and Teighan. Brother
of Mary and her husband Bill
LUSH and Yvonne and her husband
Dave KING, all of Port Elgin, and Pearce and his wife
Scelena,
Bob and his wife Patsy, Allan and his wife Olga, all of Newfoundland,
and Dennis and his wife Brenda of Oshawa. He is also survived
by his sister-in-law Norma
STACEY.
Predeceased by his parents
Robert and Johanna
STACEY, by his father and mother-in-law Cyril
and Margaret
PERRIER, two brothers Arch and Willis, and by one
sister Marjorie. His will be missed by his much loved nephews
and nieces and by great Friends. Friends may call at the W. Kent
Milroy Port Elgin Chapel, 510 Mill Street, Port Elgin (Town of Saugeen
Shores) from 7 to 9 p.m. on Tuesday, October 24th, 2006. Funeral
service will be conducted in the chapel on Wednesday at 2: 00 p.m.
with Pastor Bob
JOHNSTON officiating. Interment Sanctuary Park
Cemetery, Port Elgin. Following the interment a reception will
be held in the Community Room of the funeral home. Memorial contributions
to the London Regional Cancer Centre would be appreciated as
expressions of sympathy. Portrait and memorial online at www.milroyfuneralhomes.com.
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STACEY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-01-13 published
PEAKER,
Helen
M.
(ALDRIDGE)
Peacefully at London Health Sciences Centre-Victoria Hospital,
on Thursday, January 12th, 2006, Mrs. Helen M.
(ALDRIDGE)
PEAKER
of London in her 78th year. Beloved wife of Ron. Loving mother
of Don (Helen,) Brian (Alethea,) Cathy
COURTNEY
(Bill) all of
London, and Ken (Margo) of Burlington. Dear sister of Thelma
STACEY and Karen
HIGGINS both of London, Shirley
BRADLEY
(Ken)
of Goderich, and Norm
ALDRIDGE of London. Much loved grandmother
of Andrew, Robin, Jeff, Adam, Sean, Laura, Emily, Russ and Derek.
Predeceased by her brother Butch
ALDRIDGE.
Helen was a fitness
enthusiast and long time member of 'Ladies Day Out Group' at
Bob Hayward Y and recently the Memorial Boy's and Girl's Club.
Helen was a lover of children, gardening, walking and baking
for her family and Friends. Visitation will be held on Friday
from 7: 00-9:00 p.m. and Saturday from 11:30-12:30 p.m. at the
Westview Funeral Chapel, 709 Wonderland Road North, where the
funeral service will be conducted on Saturday, January 14th,
2006 at 12: 30 p.m. Cremation, Mount Pleasant Crematorium. Those
wishing to make a donations in memory of Helen are asked to consider
the Memorial Boy's and Girl's Club.
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STACEY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-03-11 published
O'ROURKE,
Elizabeth
Mae (née
CRONIN)
78, of Mitchell passed away at the Ritz Lutheran Villa, Mitchell
on Thursday, March 9, 2006. Beloved wife of the late John (Jack)
O'ROURKE (1992.) Dear mother of David
O'ROURKE and wife
Ann of
Mitchell, Delaine
O'ROURKE of London, Bryan
O'ROURKE and wife
Linda of Seaforth, Mary Helen
VAN
LOON and husband Mike of R.R.#2,
Dublin, Sally
STACEY and husband Bill of Mitchell and Kevin
O'ROURKE
and wife Jan of R.R.#1, Dublin. Loving grandmother of 16 grandchildren.
Dear sister of Frank
CRONIN of R.R.#2, Dublin and Jim
CRONIN
and wife Mildred of Mitchell. Dear sister-in-law of Anne
CRONIN
of Newmarket, Joan
CRONIN and Marie
O'ROURKE, both of Mitchell.
Also surviving are a number of nieces and nephews. Predeceased
by her parents Joseph and Elizabeth
(ROACH)
CRONIN, a son Michael
O'ROURKE (1993,) brothers Len and wife
Mary,
Jack,
Joe and wife
Delaine,
Lorne,
Clarence and Bob
CRONIN, brothers-in-law and
sisters-in-law Johnny and Dorothy
ROBINSON,
Gus and Margaret
DENOMME, Pearl
O'ROURKE, Bill
O'ROURKE, Joe
O'ROURKE, Clayton
and Kathryn
LOOBY and Pat and Marg
O'ROURKE.
Friends will be
received at the Lockhart Funeral Home, 109 Montreal Street, Mitchell
on Sunday 7-9 p.m. and
on Monday 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. Mass of Christian
Burial will be celebrated at St. Patrick's Roman Catholic Church,
Dublin on Tuesday at 11: 00 a.m. with Reverend Alan
DUFRAIMONT - celebrant.
Spring interment in St. Patrick's Cemetery. Memorial donations
to St. Vincent de Paul or St. Patrick's Church Building Funds,
Ritz Villa Missing Link or Arthritis Society would be appreciated.
Parish prayers will be offered at the funeral home on Sunday
at 3: 30 p.m. Online condolences at www.lockhartfunerlhomecom.
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STACEY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-03-15 published
O'HEARN,
Ella
M.
(O'SULLIVAN)
Peacefully, with her family by her side, at the Wildwood Care
Centre,
Saint
Marys on Monday, March 13, 2006 Ella M.
(O'SULLIVAN)
O'HEARN in her 87th year. Beloved wife of the late Edmund J.
O'HEARN (1981.) Loving mother of Deanna
HART and Vince of London,
Donna STACEY of Saint Marys, Jim
O'HEARN and Carolyne of Canmore,
Alberta, Mike
O'HEARN of Winnipeg, Manitoba, Mary
O'HEARN,
Beverley
GRAFF and Laurence, Margaret
THOMPSON/THOMSON/TOMPSON/TOMSON and Ron all of Saint Marys,
Joseph O'HEARN and wife
Ann of Harmony. Dear mother-in-law of
Anne Marie
O'HEARN of Calgary. She was much loved by 20 grandchildren,
12 great grandchildren, sisters Margaret
WHITTON and Ursula
O'SULLIVAN
of Brampton and Sister Dolores of London. Ella was predeceased
by a son Gerald
O'HEARN (2001) and a son-in-law Keith
STACEY
(2000). Resting at the L.A. Ball Funeral Chapel, 7 Water Street
North Saint Marys on Wednesday 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. The Funeral Mass
will be celebrated at Holy Name of Mary Church in Saint Marys on
Thursday
March 16, 2006 at 11 a.m. with Rev. Fr. Thomas
MOONEY
officiating, assisted by Deacon Mark
STAGG.
Interment will follow
in Saint Marys Cemetery. In her memory donations to the charity
of one's own choice would be appreciated.
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STACEY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-03-18 published
BENENATI,
Gerald "
Gerry"
Anthony
At Bluewater Health Norman Street Site, Sarnia on Thursday, March 16,
2006 Gerald (Gerry) Anthony
BENENATI, age 65 of Sarnia. Gerry
was a member of the Sarnia Umpires Association, the Sarnia Sting
Booster Club and was an avid bowler for many years. Beloved husband
of Merilyn
(FURNESS)
BENENATI for 43 years. Loved father of Sherry
CICCHINI and her husband Rocco. Dear grandfather of Rachel
CICCHINI,
"the apple of his eye." Brother of Fred and Angie
BENENATI of
London, Jo-Ellen and Keith
KARLSON of Niagara Falls. Survived
by his mother-in-law Ruth
FURNESS and sister-in-law Norma
STACEY
and her husband Jim. Also survived by many cousins, nieces and
nephews. Predeceased by his parents Joseph and Jennie
BENENATI
and by his father-in-law Alex
FURNESS. A funeral service will
be held on Monday, March 20, 2006 at 11: 00 a.m. at Smith Funeral
Home, 1576 London Line, Sarnia (519) 542-5541. Cremation will
follow. Friends will be received at the Smith Funeral Home on
Sunday afternoon from 2 to 4 p.m. and evening from 7 to 9 p.m.
Sympathy through donations to the Sarnia Minor Athletic Association
would be appreciated by the family. Memories and condolences
may be emailed to smithfuneralhome@cogeco.net
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STACEY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-06-07 published
STACEY,
Brian
J.
Suddenly in Saint Marys on Tuesday, June 6, 2006. Brian J.
STACEY,
age 45 years. Dear husband of Leslee
(BERRY)
STACEY and loving
father of Sara and Matthew. Cherished son of Floyd and Donna
(DRINKWALTER)
STACEY. Dear brother of Steve
STACEY and Trish
RANSLEY of Saint Marys and Kevin
STACEY of Sarnia. Beloved grand_son
of Florence
DRINKWALTER of Saint Marys and the late Jack
DRINKWALTER.
Dear son-in-law of Grant and Muriel
BERRY of Saint Marys. Dear
brother-in-law of Kim and John
MUNRO of Saint Marys and Campbell
and Danielle
BERRY of Calgary. Dear uncle of Josh and Mike
STACEY,
Scott and Katelyn
MUNRO,
Amanda
BERRY, Emma and Kent
BERRY. Predeceased
by a brother-in-law Duane
BERRY.
Resting at the L.A. Ball Funeral
Chapel, 7 Water St. N., Saint Marys on Thursday from 2-4 p.m. and
7-9 p.m. The funeral service will be held at Saint Marys United
Church (85 Church St. S., Saint Marys) on Friday, June 9, 2006
at 1 p.m. with Rev. Dr. Richard
BOTT officiating. In his memory
donations to the Heart and Stroke Foundation or the charity of
your choice would be appreciated as expressions of sympathy.
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STACEY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-06-10 published
WILLCOCK,
Willard "
Bill"
W.
With his family by his side, Willard (Bill) W.
WILLCOCK in his
79th year, passed away peacefully at London Health Sciences Centre-
Victoria Hospital, on Thursday, June 8th, 2006. Loving husband
of 56 years to Marion
(STACEY)
WILLCOCK.
Dearly loved father
of his children, Sharon
PURCELL and her husband Dennis, William
WILLCOCK and his wife
Cheryl and Susan
HOWSON.
Loving grandpa
of Chris and Sarah, David and Jenn, Jesse, Carley May, Cole,
Clayton, and great grandpa of Reece, William and Lukas. Predeceased
by his parents May and Wilfred
WILLCOCK of Mount Brydges and by
his brother Robert
WILLCOCK.
Sadly missed by his in-laws, Dorothy
WILLCOCK,
Helen
STIRLING, Gerald and Nancy
STACEY and Thelma
STACEY.
Fondly remembered by Lenore
CUMMINGS and all of his golfing
buddies. He will be missed by many nieces and nephews. Special
thanks to Mary D., Ingrid and Crisa of the Community Care Access
Centre, and the respiratory team at the London Health Sciences
Centre for all their help and support. Visitation will be held
on Saturday and Sunday from 2: 00-4:00 and 7:00-9:00 p.m. at the
Westview Funeral Chapel, 709 Wonderland Road North, where the
funeral service will be conducted on Monday, June 12th, 2006
at 11: 00 a.m. Private interment, Woodhull Cemetery. Those wishing
to make a donation in memory of Bill are asked to consider London
Health Sciences Foundation - Cancer Centre or the Heart and Stroke
Foundation of Ontario.
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STACEY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-10-13 published
REID.
Wilmot
Ervin "
Rip"
At Saint_Joseph's Manor, Elliot Lake, Ontario, Wednesday, October 4,
2006. Wilmot Ervin "Rip"
REID in his 90th year. Beloved husband
of Loretta
(KENTY)
REID (née
GIROUX) and the late Flossie
REID
(née WILSON) (1969.) Dear father of Wayne (Donna)
REID of London,
Francis (Bill)
LEGG of Woodstock, Marie (Gord
STACEY)
PATKUS
of London, Terry (Betty)
REID of Elliot Lake and Geraldine (Raymond)
BRISEBOIS of Tillsonburg. Step-father of Laura
MOCK of Vienna
and Marcella
KENTY of Elliot Lake. He will be greatly missed
by 12 grand_sons and 1 granddaughter, plus many great-grandchildren
as well as 2 great-great-grandchildren. He is survived by two
sisters Marjorie (Russ)
STEVENS of Brownsville and Elma (Bev)
GAGEN of Saint Thomas, sister-in-law Jean
REID and many nieces and
nephews. Predeceased by two brothers John (1994) and David (2003).
The dear son of the late Priscilla and Wilmot
REID. A Memorial
Service will be held at the Evans Funeral Home, 648 Hamilton
Rd. (1 block east of Egerton), on Saturday, October 14, 2006,
at 4: 00 p.m. (Visitation from 3-4 p.m.). Online condolences can
be expressed at www.evansfh.ca. A tree will be planted as a living
memorial to Mr.
REID.
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STACEY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-11-21 published
BRADLEY,Shirley
A.
(ALDRIDGE)
Peacefully at home, on Friday November 17th, 2006, Mrs. Shirley A.
(ALDRIDGE)
BRADLEY of Goderich in her 72nd year. Beloved wife
of Ken. Loving mother of Kim (Maggie) of London. Dear sister
of Norman ALDRIDGE,
Thelma
STACEY and Karen
HIGGINS of London.
Much loved aunt of nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her brother
Butch ALDRIDGE and sister Helen
PEAKER.
Shirley was a loyal friend
and very active within the many communities she resided in. Shirley
was a lover of children, gardening, walking and baking. Shirley
was happiest spending time with her family and Friends. A memorial
service will be conducted on Saturday, November 25th, 2006 at
3: 00 p.m. at the Westview Funeral Chapel, 709 Wonderland Road
North, with visitation one hour prior to the service. Cremation,
Mount Pleasant Crematorium. In lieu of flowers, those wishing
to make a donation in memory of Shirley are asked to consider
a charity of your choice in your community.
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STACEY o@ca.on.peterborough.north_monaghan.peterborough.the_peterborough_examiner 2006-03-30 published
JOHNSTON,
Miss
Helen
Margaret
At Trenton Memorial Hospital on Tuesday, March 28, 2006, one
day prior to her 84th birthday. Dear sister of Esther
BANNON
(Thomas) of Ennismore and Grace
STACEY
(Albert) of Pickering.
Predeceased by brothers Mel, George, Russel and Herb
JOHNSTON,
and one sister Ethel
BOWES.
Daughter of the late Earl
JOHNSTON
and Margaret
O'BRIEN.
Also survived by several nieces and nephews.
Helen will be missed by her Friends at Pathways to Independence
and her Friends of the Friendship Club. Friends are invited to
call at the Kaye Funeral Home "Memorial Chapel" 539 George Street
North on Friday, March 31st from 2: 00 to 3:00 p.m. followed by
service in the Chapel at 3: 00 p.m. Rev. Jim
MOULTON officiating.
Interment Saint_John's Cemetery, Ida. Donations to Pathways To
Independence or the Heart and Stroke Foundation would be appreciated
by the family.
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STACEY o@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.collingwood.enterprise-bulletin 2006-03-29 published
GREGORY,
Dorothy
Marion
Steuart
In her 89th year Dorothy's spirit flew away on Sunday February 19,
2006 at 11: 55 p.m. Predeceased by her husband John (Jack)
GREGORY,
Dorothy will be lovingly remembered by her daughters, Geri
LYNCH
(Bill,) Cathie
RUSSO
(Joe) and Ruth
GREGORY; grandchildren, Sean
(Margot) and Kristy
LYNCH,
Robin and Mairen
KOPS, Brent and Geoffrey
PATERSON, Jennifer (Ted)
STACEY and John and Nick
RUSSO; great-
granchildren: Maya
LYNCH,
Monet
KOPS and Elizabeth
STACEY. Dorothy
spent her retirement years living in the house that Jack built
in Victor Beach, Manitoba. She chose to move to Collingwood,
Ontario to reside in Bayhaven Care Centre to be near her daughter
Geri. Dorothy had a full life, born in Teddington, England but
living most of her life in Winnipeg. She was daughter of Doctor Gerald
SHAW and Ethel
WILLIAMS, predeceased by her brother Al
WILLIAMS
of Calgary. Bette
WILLIAMS, brother Gerald (Margaret)
WILLIAMS
of Vancouver and their respective families remain. Dorothy graduated
from Rupertsland College, and after completing her training worked
at the Winnipeg Clinic as an Orthoptist. She served in the Royal
Canadian Air Force during the war in the Opthalmic Section of
the Medical Unit, discharged in 1944. She met and married Jack
GREGORY, an Australian serving with the Royal Canadian Air Force
and briefly stationed in Manitoba during the war. Dorothy believed
in volunteerism and throughout her life she was active with the
Girl Guides of Canada, the Innerwheel of the Rotary Club, the
St. Agnes Guild of the Children's Hospital, and coordinated the
annual Children's Hospital Book Market. In mid life Dorothy discovered
yoga and became a teacher, thereafter supporting community by
teaching yoga and meditation. She taught at the Senior Scene
in Victoria Beach into her 80's. A memorial service to celebrate
Dorothy's life will be held at Saint Michael's Church in Victoria
Beach, Friday, June 16 at 2: 00 p.m. In lieu of flowers donations
may be made to the Children's Hospital Foundation, CE 501-840
Sherbrook Street, Winnipeg, Manitoba R3A 1S1
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STACEY o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2006-11-13 published
STACEY,
Helen
Kathleen (née
ALLEN) B.A. LLD, O.C.
Widow of Col. Charles P.
STACEY,
Canadian
Military historian.
Quietly at Leaside Retirement Residence on Thursday, November 9,
2006. She was a celebrated journalist and a champion of adoption
through her column "Today's Child". Much loved by her god daughter
Nadine
(Mrs.
Donald G.
BELL) and her family, and devoted friend
of Victoria Leach
KALLMEYER.
Arrangements entrusted to The Simple
Alternative Funeral Centre. Flowers gratefully declined. No funeral
service will be held at Mrs.
STACEY's request. If you wish, memorial
donations may be made to the charity of your choice.
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STACEY o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2006-11-18 published
Helen ALLEN,
Journalist (1907-2006)
She laboured for decades to improve the lot of unwanted children,
many of whom were better off because of her efforts, writes Sandra
MARTIN. At the end of the Vietnam War she also helped rescue
orphans in Saigon
By Sandra MARTIN,
Page
S11
The concept may seem bizarre today, but in its era, the Toronto
newspaper column Today's Child was an innovative force intended
to improve the lives of thousands of emotionally needy and often
physically damaged children. In the early 1960s, back in the
days when having a child "out of wedlock" was socially unacceptable
and before reliable contraception or abortions were generally
available, many young women gave their unplanned babies up for
adoption. The ranks of healthy infants were swelled by older
children who had been abandoned by parents unable or unwilling
to raise their own offspring or who had been removed from dangerous
situations. Many of these "hard-to-place" children trundled from
one foster home to another or marked birthday after birthday
in orphanages and other residential institutions.
Helen ALLEN, a journalist who became a crusader for adoption,
believed that all children deserved parents and a home to call
their own. For nearly 20 years, she devoted her energies to the
task through her column Today's Child in The Telegram in Toronto
and the long-running television program Family Finder. Although,
nobody knows for certain how many of these adoptions were successful,
there is enough anecdotal evidence to suggest that many, many
children were happier and healthier because of Ms.
ALLEN's actions.
"Some social workers were very reluctant at the thought of exposing
children to the public in this way, because it was an invasion
of privacy, but I was all for it," recalled Victoria
LEACH/LEECH/LEITCH, a
former social worker and adoption supervisor who knew first-hand
the dire circumstances of these children's lives. She and Ms.
ALLEN
became colleagues and good Friends, sharing the same dedication
and sense of humour.
The late media mogul John
BASSETT, who was the last publisher
of The Telegram, considered Ms.
ALLEN's long-running adoption
column "her real life's work." Ms.
ALLEN "has helped this country
enormously by giving new hope and new opportunities to the nation's
richest resource, our children," he wrote in a tribute to her
in 1982, and "nothing has given me greater pride than being associated
with her in this task."
Helen Kathleen
ALLEN was born near Saskatoon, the only child
of a Presbyterian minister and a school teacher. The family eventually
settled in Aurora, north of Toronto, as her father moved from
one congregation to another. He died of meningitis when Helen
was five and her mother worked as a supply teacher to support
them both. Ms.
ALLEN later described her childhood as happy,
although she regretted that there was never enough money to buy
her a bicycle. It was only much later that she looked back as
an adult and realized that "it's too bad to be an only child,
too bad not to have a Dad."
After graduating from high school in 1925, Ms.
ALLEN moved to
Toronto to do a four-year degree in modern languages (French
and German) at University College at the University of Toronto.
By then, her widowed mother had married a man named
PALMER, so
Ms. ALLEN boarded with a family named
GRIFFITHS while she attended
university, financed with $2000 from her mother's savings. That's
how she met the
GRIFFITHS' daughter, Phyllis, who became a classmate,
then a journalism colleague and a dear friend and housemate until
she died more than 50 years later in 1978.
At U of T, Ms.
ALLEN joined the German club, which turned out
to be a lively collection of people, including professors Geoffrey
HOLT and Barker
FAIRLEY, who got together on a weekly basis to
sing German songs. An older cousin, who worked on the student
newspaper, The Varsity, introduced Ms.
ALLEN to the editor, a
young man named Charles
STACEY. (A year older, he was destined
for a stellar career as a military historian and became very
well known as a biographer of Prime Minister Mackenzie King.)
"Somehow I found myself accepting an assignment to cover a freshie
tea that first week. It showed up on the front page, without
a word changed, and I was hooked," she presciently told Judith
ADAM/ADAMS, the author of the 1982 Ontario government publication,
Today's Child and Helen
ALLEN.
After graduating in 1929, Ms.
ALLEN went to work as a reporter
for The Telegram, a newspaper founded in 1876 by John Ross
ROBERTSON
as a vehicle to promote British and Imperial sentiments. For
the next three decades, Ms.
ALLEN did general assignment reporting,
reviewed movies, covered political events and criminal trials,
and edited the women's pages. In covering the 1939 Royal Tour
of King George VI and Queen Elizabeth she wrote: "Everyone who
has seen her is talking about the Queen. The Queen's smile. The
Queen's charm. The Queen's beauty. The Queen's lovely gowns."
What made her name, however, was an assignment that she took
on reluctantly in 1964 to write an adoption column for the paper.
Instead of being the brainchild of one person, the idea came
about as a confluence of incidents, experience and inspiration
dating back to the early 1960s when The Telegram ran a front-page
story about a young boy being publicly beaten by his father on
a downtown street corner. Publisher John
BASSETT assigned reporter
Andrew MacFARLANE to investigate and write an article on child
abuse.
Mr. MacFARLANE contacted the office of Doctor James
BAND, the deputy
minister of welfare in Ontario, who supplied huge amounts of
information on child protection services and took Mr.
MacFARLANE
to visit an orphanage which housed dozens of children three years
of age and under. Mr.
MacFARLANE quickly realized that many of
these children had short attention spans, played aggressively,
and, despite being "cuddled" by volunteers, appeared lacking
in warmth and curiosity. Both men believed these children needed
families and permanent homes, if they were to have any chance
of growing up emotionally healthy.
In 1964, Doctor
BAND sought out Mr.
MacFARLANE, who by then was
The Telegram's managing editor, and suggested he run an "advertising"
feature to make the public aware of the plight of these forgotten
children. Both Mr.
MacFARLANE and Mr.
BASSETT took up the idea
enthusiastically and assigned the column to Ms.
ALLEN, telling
her to contact the more than 50 regional Children's Aid Societies
that operated in Ontario under the Child Welfare Act, find some
children who were waiting for families, and run their pictures
and write about them in the paper. The plan was to run Today's
Child for a few weeks and check the response.
Children's Aid Societies, which are protective by definition,
were largely horrified at the idea of parading children, along
with their physical and emotional problems, in a public newspaper.
To them, the column reeked of "freak shows" at carnivals. Only
three were willing to participate -- Hamilton, Kenora and Toronto.
Although disappointing, the response was strong enough to give
Ms. ALLEN enough children to produce a daily column for three
weeks.
The first child was a 15-month-old girl of mixed race named Hope,
a difficult placement in those homogeneous days before the immigration
rules relaxed and Canada had an official multiculturalism policy.
Nevertheless, 40 prospective adoptive parents wrote in response
to the story about Hope. Their letters were passed along to the
Children's Aid Society for screening, assessing and processing.
"I wrote abut 23 children in those first Today's Child columns
that summer," Ms.
ALLEN recalled years later, "and when the results
were finally assessed, 18 of those youngsters found homes."
After three years of daily columns, Today's Child expanded to
other daily and weekly papers throughout Ontario. The following
year, Ms. ALLEN proposed doing a television version of the column
based on the daily Ben Hunter Program in California, which delivered
commercials for a variety of products, saving one day a week
for children wanting to be adopted. Armed with a tape of the
American show, Ms.
ALLEN and Victoria
LEACH/LEECH/LEITCH, then Ontario Adoption
Co-ordinator, approached CFTO, the Toronto television station
that was part-owned by Mr.
BASSETT. "It took them all of 15 minutes
to make up their minds," Ms.
ALLEN reported later. Family Finder,
which ran commercial-free, debuted in the fall of 1968 and for
years was the longest-running program on the channel.
When The Telegram folded in 1971, the Ontario government hired
Ms. ALLEN as an information officer in the Ministry of Community
and Social Services. She continued to write the column three
times a week (which was syndicated by the government to more
than 20 daily newspapers including The Toronto Star), do the
television program and speak about adoption to community and
service groups.
In the early 1970s, television and newspaper reporting from Vietnam
publicized the plight of many of the children who had become
victims of the continuing conflict. The orphanages in Saigon
were overflowing with abandoned or parentless children. Social
changes, including a declining birth rate, had put an end to
the baby surplus of a decade before. That fact, plus the human
desire to help needy children, had lots of North Americans flying
to Vietnam and trying to pick up babies in exchange for cash
or services.
The local adoption agencies were floundering, so the Ontario
Ministry of Social and Community Services sent Victoria
LEACH/LEECH/LEITCH
and Ms. ALLEN to Saigon to work with the Vietnamese. As the Viet
Cong advanced and the Americans pulled out, the two women rescued
close to 60 children, brought them to Canada and found homes
for them. "The deputy minister told me, 'if we are going to do
this, we will give it the same service we give our own children,'
Ms. LEACH/LEECH/LEITCH said.
Ms. ALLEN received many honours, including being named to the
Order of Canada and an honorary doctorate from York University
and the Award of Merit from the City of Toronto. In the late
1970s, she was at an Order of Canada reception when she encountered
fellow laureate and University of Toronto military historian
Charles STACEY. "
When I was at college, I dated Charles, who
was then editor of the Varsity. He was in fourth year and I was
in second," she told Ms.
ADAM/ADAMS. "He went off to Oxford and then
Princeton; I went on to the Tely as a reporter."
Ms. ALLEN and Colonel
STACEY, a widower, renewed their Friendship
and their affection for each other and were married in a small
wedding at St. Andrew's Presbyterian Church in Toronto on October 3,
1980. The bride was 73, and the groom 74. A little more than
a year later, she officially retired from Today's Child (Judith
ADAM/ADAMS took over the column for another seven years) and Family
Finder, but continued to spend two days a week answering mail
and writing Adoption Bulletins while her husband wrote his books.
The STACEYs were a very companionable couple. They loved to entertain
at small dinner parties at Massey College, to read Jane Austen
novels aloud to each other and to travel. Col.
STACEY died suddenly
of a heart attack in November of 1989, after nearly a decade
of marriage. She continued to live in their Rosedale apartment
until she suffered a heart attack and a fall late in 2002, and
moved into the Leaside Retirement Residence.
Helen Kathleen
ALLEN was born in Dundurn, Saskatchewan., on August
16, 1907. She died in Toronto of congestive heart failure on
November 9. She was 99. Predeceased by her husband Charles
STACEY
and by her dear friend Phyllis
GRIFFITHS, she is survived by
her god-daughter Nadine
BELL and her family.
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NASH,
Leon
B.
(Former Instructor of Music with the York Region Board of Education)
Peacefully at Aurora Resthaven on Monday, February 6th, 2006,
in his 85th year. Beloved husband of Muriel (née
STACEY) and
dear father of Barbara (Mrs. Alex
CASSELS) of Keswick, Catherine
(Mrs. Floyd
RAMBARRAN) of Richmond, British Columbia and the
late Brian Leon
NASH. He will be lovingly remembered by his grandchildren
Alan, Andrew, Lawrence and Fiona (Paul
MATHESON)
CASSELS and
Stacey RAMBARRAN and 9 great-grandchildren. Dear brother of Joan
DICKIE and the late Paulene
SPICER.
Service to celebrate Leon's
life will be held at St. Paul's Anglican Church, (Church and
D'Arcy Sts., Newmarket) on Thrusday, February 9th at 1 p.m. with
visitation at the church from 12 noon Thursday. Memorial donations
to the Canadian Diabetes Society or St. Paul's Church Restoration
Fund would be appreciated. Arrangements entrusted to the Roadhouse
& Rose Funeral Home, 157 Main St. South, Newmarket (905-895-6631).
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DEMSHAR,
Pauline
Anne
Passed away suddenly at home surrounded by her loving daughters
Dr. Helen and Sylvia
DEMSHAR on Tuesday, March 14, 2006. Predeceased
by her beloved husband Stanley (July 1983). Survived by her sisters
Julia STACEY and Olga
WILGOSH and her brothers Bill and Nick
STECY, and many nieces and nephews in Winnipeg. A Mass of Christian
Burial was held at Saint Margaret of Scotland Church with burial
at Holy Cross Cemetery. If desired, remembrances in Pauline's
name may be made to the charity of your choice. The family wish
to thank Sunnybrook and Women's College Health Care Centre for
their wonderful care given during Pauline's life. Arrangements
in the care of the Trull Funeral Home and Cremation Centre, 416-488-1101.
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FODICK,
Carol▼
Ann▼ (née
DEMBOWSKI)
Passed away peacefully on April 3, 2006 at Aurora Resthaven Nursing
Home,▼ at age 96. Predeceased by her parents John and Agnes
DEMBOWSKI,
her son Michael, her sisters Lina, Mary and brother Antony. Survived
by her nieces Anne
STACEY and Bernice
PIETRZAK.
Resting▲ at Bates
and Dodds Funeral Services (931 Queen St. W., Toronto), visitation
Wednesday, April 5, from 7-9 p.m., Rosary at 7: 45 p.m. Funeral
Mass at St. Stanislaus Roman Catholic Church (12 Denison Ave.,
Toronto) on Thursday, April 6, at 9 a.m. Interment Holy Cross
Cemetery.
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FODICK,
Carol▲
Ann▲ (née
DEMBOWSKI)
Passed away peacefully on April 3, 2006 at Aurora Resthaven Nursing
Home,▲ at age 96. Predeceased by her parents John and Agnes
DEMBOWSKI,
her son Michael, her sisters Lina and Mary and brothers Anthony
and Peter. Survived by her nieces Pauline
TOMASSI,
Anne
STACEY,
Bernice PIETRZAK and nephews Michael, Stanley and Walter
DEMBOWSKI.
Resting at Bates and Dodds Funeral Services (931 Queen St. W.,
Toronto), visitation Wednesday, April 5, from 7-9 p.m., rosary
at 7: 45 p.m. Funeral at St. Stanislaus Roman Catholic Church
(12 Denison Ave., Toronto) on Thursday, April 6, at 9 a.m. Interment
at Holy Cross Cemetery.
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Helen ALLEN, 99: Wrote Today's Child
Children found homes thanks to her columns, television show
Journalist helped 'hard to place' kids find a family
By Thulasi
SRIKANTHAN,
Staff
Reporter with files from the Star's
Archives and Wire Services
Once referred to as the "fairy godmother of adoption," journalist
Helen ALLEN tirelessly worked for 18 years to find homes for
11,000 children who had no parents or relatives to take care
of them.
In her column, Today's Child -- which began in the now-defunct
Toronto
Telegram but later continued in the Star --
ALLEN often
wrote about children who were deemed "hard to place" by children's
aid societies. This included a youngster born with no arms or
legs and another battling Down's syndrome. Even sets of up to
seven siblings, who often faced separation, found families due
to ALLEN.
"She had a place in her heart for every child who needed a home,"
said one of her close Friends, Victoria
LEACH/LEECH/LEITCH, who worked with
ALLEN over the years on adoption cases.
ALLEN's columns and later her television show, Family Finder,
drew thousands of readers over the years and became an invaluable
resource for children's aid societies across Ontario.
Last week, the 99-year-old, who was an Order of Canada recipient,
died at Leaside Retirement Residence.
ALLEN was born on August 16, 1907 to Rev. and H.H.
ALLEN in Dundurn,
Saskatchewan, their only child. The family moved to Aurora when
she was young.
She later attended the University of Toronto, and had plans to
become a teacher, until she met the managing editor of student
newspaper The Varsity who assigned her to cover the freshman
tea.
ALLEN would recount later in the Star that she was so fresh to
journalism that she had to ask what the word "cover" meant.
She later told the Star: "From my first day on The Varsity, I
could think of no other career but journalism."
When she finished her modern languages degrees in 1929, she went
to the Telegram seeking a job and was immediately hired.
She was supposed to host a tea party for her former staff at
The Varsity that afternoon, but her plans were interrupted when
the Telegram city editor in their morning meeting unexpectedly
told her to start later that day.
"Instead of pouring tea, I was in a boat in Toronto Harbour with
delegates to the convention of American Prison Association, asking
what they thought of Ontario jails," she later told the Star.
She quickly rose through the ranks, working as women's editor
and covering a variety of beats for the Telegram.
In the mid-1960s,
ALLEN's fortunes would rise even further when
an Ontario member of provincial parliament approached the Telegram
about starting a program to help children who were hard to place.
As one of the best reporters at the paper,
ALLEN was a natural
choice for the editors. When she first broached the idea with
more than 50 children's aid societies in Ontario, all but three
turned her down.
Pictures and biographies were soon given in her columns and the
results were tremendous: 18 out of 23 children were adopted immediately.
When the other agencies saw the response, they joined on.
The project, which began as an experiment, was here to stay.
"She was the catalyst that brought together families and children,"
said LEACH/LEECH/LEITCH.
When the Telegram folded in the 1970s, she moved to the Star,
where she would remain for about a decade.
Throughout, she took great pains to be honest in her columns
about both the good and challenging qualities of the children
she profiled.
"I feel it is better to tell what a child is like at the beginning
then prospective parents are much more likely to follow through,"
she later told the Star.
As for the love of her life, it ended up being an old friend
from her University of Toronto days, Col. Charles P.
STACEY.
He was a Canadian military historian and also a member of the
Order of Canada.
Though they went out a few times in their university days, he
ended up marrying another woman.
When they met at a reunion more than four decades later, they
ended up getting married. They married in 1980 when she was 73.
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SWINARSKI,
Zygmunt
Peacefully, with his wife by his side, on Friday, December 30,
2005 at St. Joseph's Health Centre at the age of 87. Loving husband
to Betty for 35 years. Adored father to Krystyna
NAMEDYNSKI and
Robert STACHULA and their families. Dear dziadzia to Caroline,
Joanne, Edmund Joseph, Gregory, Cathy, Teresa, and Richard. Zygmunt
will be lovingly remembered by his nieces, nephews, great-grandchildren,
family and Friends in Canada and Poland. Friends may call at
the Turner and Porter Funeral Home, 436 Roncesvalles Ave. (at Howard
Park) on Tuesday from 6-9 p.m. Rosary prayers 7 p.m. Funeral
Mass to be held at St. Casimir's Church, 156 Roncesvalles Ave.,
on Wednesday, January 4, 2006 at 9 a.m. Entombment Park Lawn
Mausoleum. If desired, remembrances may be made to Copernicus
Lodge.
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BUTTERFIELD,
Frederick
Edmund
A resident of Chatham. Frederick Edmund
BUTTERFIELD died Tuesday
February 28, 2006 at the Chatham-Kent Health Alliance at the
age of 90. Born in Healey Falls, Ontario
son of the late Herbert
Choate and Clara Lorraine Phoebe
(BROWN)
BUTTERFIELD.
Beloved
husband of the late Margaret A.
(STACK)
BUTTERFIELD (1989) and
Clare (O'GRADY)
BUTTERFIELD (2000.) Dear father of Ronald H.
and Valerie
BUTTERFIELD,
Chatham.
Grandfather of Anna Lee and
Jeff EDMONDSON,
Chatham and Fred
BUTTERFIELD, Orillia.
Great
Grandfather of Shawna and Tyler
EDMONDSON. A Private Family Memorial
service will be conducted at the McKinlay Funeral Home, 459 St.
Clair St. Chatham. Cremation. Donations made by cheque to the
Charity of Choice appreciated. Online condolences may be left
at www.mckinlayfuneralhome.com.
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BARRETT,
George
Patrick
Michael
Suddenly at the Queen Elizabeth Hospital on Friday, February
3, 2006, George Patrick Michael
BARRETT of Charlottetown, Prince
Edward Island, age 85 years, Veteran of the Second World War.
Beloved husband of the late Minnie
BARRETT.
Devoted father of
Diane BARRETT of Ottawa, Philip
BARRETT of Toronto, and Cathy
(Bill) BUSTARD of Charlottetown. Loving grandfather of Donald
(Barb) BARRETT of Ottawa, Leanne (John)
BENOIT of Covehead, Lindsay
FOSTER of Stratford, Carey (Cheryl)
FOSTER of New Haven and Carolyn
(Vito) FURLANO of Toronto. Proud great-grandfather of Griffin
and Alia BARRETT,
Chloe and Brady
BENOIT. Brother of Bruce
BARRETT,
Joan (Hughie)
SKEELS,
Frank
(Betty)
BARRETT, and Edna (Corbett)
MacDONALD, and the late James
BARRETT,
Gordon
BARRETT, and Mary
STACK.
Brother-in-law of Janos
SIPOS. Remembered lovingly by
numerous nieces and nephews. Resting at MacLean Funeral Home
Swan Chapel, Charlottetown until Wednesday at 9: 45 a.m. then
transferred to St. Dunstan's Basilica for Funeral Mass at 10
a.m. Interment later in the Roman Catholic Cemetery. If so desired,
memorials to the Heart and Stroke Foundation would be appreciated.
The Royal Canadian Legion will hold a tribute service at the
funeral home on Tuesday at 6: 45 p.m. Visiting hours Tuesday 2-4
and 7-9 p.m. Online condolences may be made at www.macleanfh.com
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